just so you know: you are more than enough & you are not too much.

Before Valentine’s Day

Before Valentine’s Day

I have an ambivalent relationship with Valentine's Day. When young(er), I wished and prayed that I would have a Valentine by the time the day arrived. I was almost always disappointed. Much, much later, when I married at 31, I chose Valentine's Day for the wedding...

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Magical Thinking…and Sensing…and Believing

Magical Thinking…and Sensing…and Believing

Many of us wait around or secretly hope that something magical will happen. If I'm lucky enough, patient enough, good enough, mystical enough, faith-full enough, magic will surely make its presence known and I (or my circumstances or that other person) will...

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